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*eelee88
writes:here it isIve been seeing this man for two months. The first month we had no sex, and I was trying to wait longer than that. I sort of tooted my horn so to speak about my values and how I really enjoyed the "getting to know you" stage.So anyway, this guy was constantly into me, calling me, telling me he was "falling" etc. One night we were together and yup, it happened.I felt it was too soon, as I was trying to wait, but I couldnt hold out that night, I was physically wanting it bad!So after this, he continues to take me out to dinner,we go for long bike rides together, dance together, etc. BUT the verbal and "lovey dovey" affection diminished, we sort of traded it for sex. What do I make of it? Is he still into me? Is it that we are just having "sex now"?. Then why is he taking me out?Im very confused, because it seems the dynamic has changed, and I dont know how to interpret it. I feel like his feelings and my feelings changed, I dont know if I should keep going. He s really into sex with me,but that OMG IM falling giddily in love thing just left. any thoughts? Reply to this Question
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Hey enjoy it while it as much as you can, this guy is sooo into you Lucky you!!! At least he is not using you and is courting you still. Women give their right arm for that for a guy like that trust me. Sex is a great way of showing that you care deeply for each other, and as for the kisses and cuddles, guys love all that it makes them feel as equally wanted. So stop worrying!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Of course he is into you! He is feeling very comfortable with you and it is showing. Don't let him go! He's yours to keep.
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