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writes: Im a 17 year old boy.Me and my male friend have been in a sexual relationship. we used to do it every now and then, but now we completely stopped, and havent done it in months.I cant stop thinking about him, but i also cant tell how he feels about me.Its driving me crazy.How can i mend things between us? how can i tell if he loves me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, d4u04 +, writes (20 March 2006):
I agree with Shania, if you don't ask, you don't get. And if he does love you but is just too shy to say it (which i think you also are) then you might have lost a chance of real love. I'e said this before but it's apt now aswel. The worst he can say is no, if you brace yourself for that, anything else will life your spirits x
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reader, shania +, writes (19 March 2006):
The only way to find out is to ask him.If you two have been intimate with each other then you shouldnt feel uncomfortable when you want to talk to him...on a personal level.Were you a proper couple?....is he near enough the same age as you or is he a much older man?....The reason i ask this,is because if he was a lot older then you,he might of been taking advantage of you and once he got what he wanted he then decided to move on....but if im barking up the wrong tree and you were an item then contact him and ask him where you stand?...because while you dont ask...your never going to find out.Good luck.
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