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*aliMoore
writes:Okay i've written previous questions to do with this..My best friend (male) and i have a past, he told me he loved me and later announced he wasn't ready for a relationship, so we stopped seeing eachother and decided to stay friends.Since then we've drifted and are no longer close, we used to speak everyday but now we talk rarely weekly? fortnightly? its like theres nothing to talk about, but we used to talk for hours.Is there a way i could get close to him again, like how things were before, i miss him alot and wished things were how they used to be. I can't imagine not speaking to him ever again.thanks in advance x
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reader, Lyra Anna  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 Wow, I`m in a same situation, but I worked on it for a weeks and now it seems much much better.You could ask him out. Not on a date, just to hang out like you used to do it before. If he accept your invitation (he probably will) you can tell him how much you miss him and how do you feel great for being close to him. He will preasure your honesty, because he probably misses you too. So don`t be shy, you have nothing to lose. Your friendship can only progress. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): This is weird.....I looked at this question and seriously thought that I had posted something I had forgotten about! You sound exactly like me...strangely like me. Hahaha, funny...anyway. I'm 16, and have known this guy for quite a few months - at least half a year. We've become best friends in that time - talked almost every night for hours! Then we admitted that we liked eachother...and then we started to drift apart. I didn't want it to happen...but I wasn't ready for a relationship either. Now I haven't talked to him in weeks....I hate it because when I do talk to him the conversation has seemed to have lost it's brilliance - if you know what I mean. I want to speak to him again like we used to...but he never seems to be available any more.....and when he is available I'm scared that I'll say something stupid. This may seem really silly but does his name begin with R?
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