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writes:wel me and my boyfriend have been together alomst a year, and we've done the odd sexual things but not actual sex, but im scared, and i havnt done anything to him either wich im also scared about incase it goes wrong and he thinks different of me, what advice can you give me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008): Wel in my opinon, i dont think that he will think anything bad of you. The fact that you have been together for a year shows he likes you, and wont think any different of you.As for not doing anything to him, i can understand its scary at first, so you should tell him your nervous, and let him guide you, so that he can tell you what he likes. Perhaps you could try oral sex on eachother and then possibly lead up to full sex.Not many peoples first times are great! but dont feel you need to rush into sex, wait until your ready.I do hope i was a little helpfull!
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reader, Talksense  +, writes (25 September 2008):
 Simple! If you have bee with your boyfriend for almost a year and you haven't had sex yet and he hasn't gone elsewhere, then he must really, like you and respect you. So i wouldn't worry just go for it because he seems the type that wouldn't make you feel that you're doing anything wrong anyway, plus you only get better with experience so when it feels right you should seriously think about it. If you're gonna mess up you might as well do it with a guy like that, cos you have a good one!! Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008): if hes a good boyfriend he should be feeling the samehe wont think any differently of you. but first of all make sure YOU are ready to take it further..if you aren't then do not do it. if he doesnt appreciate this then he is not worthy of you =)good luck
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