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writes:Im very confused hear and is actually driving me mad(And have read on hear before with some girl having trouble with a guy of of pof) Ive been speaking to this guy on pof for about 4 months now we speak on the phone mainly every day if not speak txt, But one think ive never met him, when we do arrange to meet we never do it as something happens either end he live about an hour and half away from me, Anyway hes said things to me like marry me and wants to have kids but all very well but we need to meet first, he said to me about 2 weeks into talking that hes falling for me nad that he loves me He kept asking if i loved him i always said no as never met, but as he kept on i eventually said yes to shut him up,But like weekend he went 2 watch football with a mate him staying over then asking me 2 pick him up which i agreed but then hes staying over the night and mate taking bk in morning, Then as i have to move out he said about me moving in with him, then spoke 2 him briefly b4 football started today and he said dont no speak about it a bit later Im so confused or just being stupid ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (3 January 2011):
 hi
loves an easy word to say and i think you know this guy is using it far to easily! he says he loves you and wants to marry you but yet he can't even make an arrangement to see you without 'something coming up' every time. if you only live 1.5 hours away from each other that is not terribly far is it? you are doing the right thing in not agreeing to say you love him (i know you've said it once just to shut him up lol but that don't really count does it?) keep him as a phone friend for now if you want to but he sounds like he needs to grow up before you give him anything more, he's acting a bit desperate, pestering you to say you love him. not good
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): you have every right to be confussed !
you shouldnt rush into anything if you or he is not to sure.
i think the best thing to do is ask him over maybe have a meal and talk about moving in together.
i think if he trys to change the subject then maybe his not to sure but dont let it get you down.x
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