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writes: I am in a long distance relationship. He is in the USA and I am in the UK. We have a very solid relationship, but everybody I talk to tells me it will never work. Recently I discovered he was emailing a girl from over there but he swears they are only friends, that when we were arguing a lot he needed someone to talk to to calm him down. But if they are just friends, why did he keep it secret? I love him to bits and I want to trust and believe him but it's just making me very worried that he doesn't love me anymore and that I am losing him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2005): Have you ever thought that maybe he kept it a secret because he knew you would react this way? A lot of men are actually capable of having platonic relationships even if some of them aren't. Long distance relationships can be a real strain on couples, trust me, I know from first hand experience. I moved 250 miles to be with my boyfriend bacause being so far away from him hurt so much. I hope everything goes well for you sweetheart. I wish you all the best!! x x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2005): I don't think anyone could give enough advice or put in their two cents because you didn't give enough info. How long have you been in this relationship? How long have you been apart? Why does him having a friend of the opposite sex bother you? Don't you have friends of the opposite in the UK? And HOW are you two fighting when you are so far apart? I think you have a trust issue no matter where you are. I think you will run yourself into the ground thinking he's cheating and so I think you should do yourself a favor and call it off before you lose him AND his friendship which could last a lifetime.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2005): I dont know if you are losing him but if you think that you are soild and he says they are just chat friends then darling take it from me get out of the relationship before it gets serious. I know because I am in the same boat as you but i did not take the warning sugns seriousily and trying to get some ansewers on what to do. But if you love him talk with him and let him know how much this hurts you and all the best to you.
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