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anonymous
writes:My two last boyfriends didn't seem to have a sexual interest in me when I wasn't there but yet both looked at porn, they rarely said anything suggestive or dirty by text. Has anyone else had something similar happen to them? Would this behaviour bother you? Could it be some people are more interested in airbrushed pictures on the internet.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 August 2012):
 sounds perfect and normal to me...
your problem is that you assume that dirty texting is normal. sexting is actually against the law if you are under 18 it's that nasty...
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reader, perrythanks +, writes (24 August 2012):
 Well if u asked me they weren't very good boyfriends like ill look at porn if im single but if i got with someone i woudln't watch it if they didn't want me too if there not satisfied with what they got the relationship ent gonna last
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2012): I thought sending dirty texts if you're attracted to someone would be instinct I did question him he seem to skip it quickly, he'd just say something like I'm new to this, I also find it confusing how they would rather knock one off to porn when he found out I didn't like him using porn he could of just had a picture of me and solved everything but he was too interested in the porn.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (13 August 2012):
 As opposed to sending you dirty text messages and choosing porn over you while you were present?
Their behaviour sounds quite normal to me. They assume you wouldn't appreciate your day being bightened with smutty, pornographic type texts and that when you're there you want them to pay attention to you.
Did I miss something?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2012): They didn't choose it over me when i was there, but i noticed both didnt seem that much up for it but yet they looked at porn in my absense, i find that worrying.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (12 August 2012):
 Porn is an addictive substance and about 15% of users develop a compulsion/addiction that interferes with their lives. When a man is choosing porn over a woman, that certainly falls into that category. This website will help answer your question better:
http://www.yourbrainonporn.com
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