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writes: Hi, I had a bad breakup with my ex about 4 months ago, and when I left him, his best friend mostly stopped talking to him as well. I became really close with his friend and I like him as more than a friend. I've told him I like him and he likes me, but we're not ready to act on it yet. Problem is my ex. If he finds out about this, I am afraid of what he'll do. He has a violent temper. And though I haven't talked to him since the breakup, he's been calling me again. What should I do?
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reader, pops +, writes (12 September 2005):
Tell your ex that you don't want to renew your relationship, and that he must stop calling you. If he doesn't comply with your wishes, get a restraining order. Violent people are just the kind of people who need to talk to a cop! And, that is why we have the Police. Young people seem to have the hardest time understanding when it is okay to call the police. This is one of those times. You have a right to not live in fear. You have the right to not be called repeatedly by someone you no longer care to see.
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reader, crying_gurl +, writes (12 September 2005):
hey your ex has to move on but he still loves you just talk to him,sit him down and chat about him for a bit then talk about his mate and tell him that you have feeling for him but dont make him feel like you where usig him just to see his mate.i know what your ex feels like though but not in a lads point of view im a girl so my ex wants to get seeing my best mate ive cried so many times but sometimes you have to move on help your ex find someone new introduce him to a mate with the same caracteristics as you but is unique in her own little way good luck on your relationship
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