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writes:He's like.. Let's get it on! But I'm not ready yet! I just started dating this guy.. Our kisses are very, very passionate. I mean enough to lead up to sex, but I'm putting on the brakes. Of course I want sex but much later in the relationship. I want us to take our time and get to know each other and be around each other. Although, I do want to continue those amazing passionate kisses... Wow! Lol. But would I be able to separate the two, or would it turn things upside down? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): It's great that you guys are such passionate kissers! You should have a lot of fun. You should talk to him, and tell him how you're feeling. If he says that he doesn't want to slow down, then maybe he needs more persuading, but if he doesn't stop then you need to tell him how serious you are. Tell him to stop or you'll have to break it off. The best part of a relationship is trust, and you shouldn't be pressured. If he understands what you're saying, you can still have a lot of fun with those amazing kisses! And when you're ready you can do a little bit more. Hope this helps.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (19 January 2009):
it's because he is a guy. they are all like that. whether they say they are or not, they all want to get some at some point.lol
you need to just tell him that you want to slow down abit, but love being with him and being intimate, but you're just not ready to take things to the next level. if he really likes and respects you he will take on board the advice and wait. if not...then he is a jerk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): lol! Ok, seriously though, try talking to him, and make sure he knows where you stand physically with the relationship.
If he is the right guy for you then he will understand, and take it slow, but he is a guy, and we will try to make whatever moves necessary to make you ladies change your mind.
But, no means no, and stop means stop. He should respect those two words being a guy, and as long as you know what lines not to cross, your amazing passionate kisses, shouldn't turn anything upside down.
But, it is difficult to move slow when the relationship is going at such a passionate speed.
Just make sure if lines are crossed, that you both stay safe, and protected. ;-) lol
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