A
female
age
36-40,
*inderellarockafella
writes:Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, we've always been a fiery couple but over the past couple of weeks our bickering has got so much worse, we argue constantly about the smallest little things. It seems to have got to the point where its unfixable but I really love him and don't want to give up, he says he really loves me too but doesnt know if we're too different? We are still together but now i have become paranoid hes going to break up with me all the time, what should I do? Is there anyway to get my sanity back? and save our relationship? Or should I just give up?? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Bibby  +, writes (11 December 2008):
we also fought mainly becos of sex as am a virgin and wasnt ready 4 sex of which i knew twasnt our fault either but i made him learn patience over the issue.
A
female
reader, Bibby +, writes (11 December 2008):
dearie, you dont need to break up with ur boyfriend. try to tolerate each other and understand yourselves. try to ignore some little things he does and make him know it hurts you. I have been thru this before but impatience made me tell him i need a break and it affected my health cuz i really love him. i want you to know that b4 two people can get along one person must always endure so the relationship will move on fine. wish u the best dear!!!!!!
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): i was in the exact same situation as you with my boyfriend. every little thing resulted in a fight and one night we realized we couldnt go on like this. he didnt think it would work cos of all the fighting, but i wasnt ready to end it as i knew how good we were before all that. even though he was skeptical, we decided to give it a go but with us just thinking before we picked fights with each other, and it got good again. thats all it takes, you just have to take a deep breath and learn to let the little things go. relationships do take work, and you have to put more effort in over time, but it is worth it if you love them... hope this helped
...............................
|
