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writes: HiMy wife and I going through a divorce. In the onset of our seperation I did not give her the space she asked for. Instead I tried to hard to fix it by asking her to communicate the problem and correct our issues. I told her I would change and I love her deeply. She finaly gave up and we are going to divorce. I love my wife and I know she loves me but she will not reconcile because she says she does not want to be married. To complicate matters she has started talking to another man, who is married to a terminally ill wife, and she feels connected to him. I finally agreed to stop calling her and told her I did not want her back. Now she calls me but she only talks about herself and her job. I just listen. When I begin to talk about anything pertaining to me or our children she politely says she has to go. Is she trying to reach out or is she just being nice to me? What should I think of this? She does have an emotional trust issue with me. Can someone give some good advice?
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reader, becky05 +, writes (19 July 2005):
Firstly, i dont think your wife wants to get back together.
Her phone calls may be for two reasons, the first is that perhaps she is trying to let you know that she is getting on in life and building a new life without you. I dont think she means any harm by this but its not very nice for you.
the second reason for her calls may be that you have been part of her life for so long that she feels the need to communicate with you still on a regular basis.
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