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*rishchick88
writes:hey everybody, just looking for some advice, 4 years ago i met a guy on a chat site whos the same age as me but lives in the uk.. (i live in ireland)... anyway we chatted as friends for nearly 2 whole years, got very close, but he made it clear from the beginning that he had a girlfriend and we were just friends which was fine, i wasnt looking for anything more.. then we lost touch for about a year or so, and somehow ended up meeting on another site, so we swapped msn addy's and stayed in touch on there, but i wasnt on very much so we kinda drifted a bit for a while again, anyway a few months ago we started talking a lot more, i learned that he and his girlfriend had just had a baby a few months before, but he wasnt happy being with her, and had told me that ages ago, but i thought it was just a phase at the time, he said he wasnt going to leave her because he wanted to support his child, he then told me that he had feelings for me, and to be honest it made me happy bacause i did too, i just figured nothing would happen because of his girlfriend.. and lately we have become very close and i have fallen for him big time.. he tells me that i make him really happy and i know he cares about me, he makes me feel so special i didnt believe there was anybody like that out there, he really is a great guy and is so sweet and caring, and we have suggested meeting because we do want to be together in the future, i know everything about him, he knows everything about me, we are destined to be together, and i know we will be soon, all i want to know is do you think he will really leave his girlfriend for me and do u think im making the right choice? i would be devastated if things didnt work out because im madly in love with this guy... thanks in advance guys xx
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reader, tux  +, writes (27 November 2008):
 Personally, I would be cautious. He is in a relationship with a girl and a kid. Why doesn't he love her now that she has his kid? I would be worried about that. I would worry that he might just have a knock them up and leave attitude. Do you think he would not do that to you? Personally, his obligation should be towards his child and the mother of his child. But I guess that doesn't work so well in this world.. But I would wonder how fit he is as a guy who falls out of love with a girl just because he gets her pregnant.
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