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writes: please ladies help me I going crazy. Me and my ex girlfriend were together 4 about a year. After 2 months of being broken up and no contact she called me out of the blue and we hung out one night and had sex with each other. It's been about a week now and we have been seeing each other alot doing couple stuff dinners, movies, and drinks but never talked about being together again. I'm so in love with her I don't know what to do with myself when I'm with her. I feel that I'm starting to push her away again because when I'm with her I lose my head and you can see how I feel for her. She get's upset when other girls call and always brings up the girl I was dating when we were not toghther. What the hell does she want with me I have put my whole life on hold since she walked in my life cause I want to be with her so bad that nothing else matters right now. What can I do to keep cool and stop going crazy what does she want with me please someone any advice will help
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2006): ok talk about gettin back together but if she doesnt want 2 then she is just using u
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reader, Tine  +, writes (16 August 2006):
 maybe she just likes the fact that you are at her beck and call whenever she wants a quickie. Truthfully i think that to avoid getting you heart broken and tramped on even more you should just walk away. She is playing with your emotions, by sleeping with you she is letting you think that there is a chance of getting back together when really all she wants is sex. You should cool off and whenever she next phones you asking to meet her, decline the offer.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (16 August 2006):
 I went through that with my ex. Eventually, I had to just ask her what is it that she wants. She said she didn't want to be in a relationship and we should remain friends. That lasted for about 10 seconds!!! Its best to just talk to her and come to some kind of decision because your feelings are up in the air and they won't come done until she tells you something. She has all the control in this situation and trust me you never want someone to have that much control over your life. If you want her back tell her and if she doesn't want that WALK AWAY!!! if you don't you will be crushed at the outcome. Believe me been there done that and have the t-shirt. Good Luck.
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reader, Nay920 +, writes (16 August 2006):
i dont want to hurt your feelings but it was just a booty call she just wanted the sex what you need to do is tell her how you feel about her and if she`s not feeling the same way then you really need to move on and stop putting your life on hold for some woman who just wants sex from you.
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reader, camille +, writes (16 August 2006):
 You MUST stay away from this girl. This is not on your terms and very unfair. You're either together or you're not, she can't have it all her way. It sounds like she's getting everything and playing with your feelings. If you love her this is not helping you at all. It's called having your cake and eating it. You need to tell her that you are not prepared to have all the things that belong in a relationship outside of one. Either get back together or she leaves you alone. It's going to very hard for you but if you're good enough to sleep with, hang out with, get jealouys about, then it's time she made a committment either way. Take control of this situation before you get hurt again. Good luck.
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reader, caraduddy +, writes (16 August 2006):
 I think you should have a chat with her and ask her if she wants to get back together or.. ? .. seems like she is sending you mixed messages. tell her how you feel. she gets upset when people talk about the girl you was dating so she must still feel things for you. Get an answer of this girl. lol , good look
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reader, lozz_1_6 +, writes (16 August 2006):
 if she is getting upset over girls ringing you, and you are doing couple stuff together and still sleeping with each other, then i suggest you bring up the subject of getting back together, odds are that she still cares about you or she wouldnt be doing these things, you really need to talk to her, good luck
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