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writes: My boyfriend of 10 months seems to want to spend every second with me, everyday. I enjoy spending time with him but it seems like we dont do anything, we just hang out. How can i have my own space, but still spend time with him? And how do i tell him i need some time to myself? Reply to this Question
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reader, giggles +, writes (16 August 2006):
has he got friends of his own?tell him you feel like he is neglecting his friends and should spend a little more time with them too.or tell him how you feel that you need to have a bit couple of days where you can do what you want to do.why dont you make suggestions on what you can do together if you are just hanging out all the time i know it get's boring,but he will think you are fine with it unless you say something.how about sometimes when he calls you and say's do you want to hang out say you have plans already he will realise that you dont have to constantly be with each other and what harm will be done. tell him how it is if you care about him alot and he cares bout you the same it wont affect your relationship other wise it will end up boring. i speak from experience i cut off everyone i knew with my last relationship and spent all my time with my parner till it ended up i spent all my time waiting for my partner because he decided he wanted to have fun without me and when we split he still had his friends and i was left to track down people who were my friends before.basically try and keep a good balance of spending time with him and spending time doing other things it keeps the relationship fresh and when you do see each other you'll be happy to just hang out.gd luck hope i have been some help to you.
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reader, caraduddy  +, writes (16 August 2006):
 I think you should have a talk with him and say how much you love him but maybe he shoudn't be around as much. Or could you give me a little bit of space every now and again. something along those lines but try not to make it sound bad. I hope you solve this but still stay together
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