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writes: I liked this guy for ages and just found out he likes me too - but he won't date me because he says I'm too young! He's nearly 15 and I'm 14. I've tried to persuade him but I don't want to go too far unless I annoy him.What should I do? How can I make him say yes? Reply to this Question
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reader, Beautiful_Suicide +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Well..I think he's probably wrong as boys are mentally 3 years less mature than girls anyway..I first started going out with my ex when I was 14 and he was 16..and emotionally I was way older than him..just give him time don't push it because you might lose the friendship and while you're waiting try and show him you're mature and ready for a relationship but without looking fake or over the top..but remember that you're still young and you've got loads of time so just enjoy what you have right now and he should see he's wrong eventually..but also you might find someone else who values your maturity..he seems a bit silly because the age difference isn't that big..maybe it's him who feels he isn't ready for a relationship just yet but he wants to keep you close until he is..remember he is only as mature as a 12 year old girl!..good luck I hope it all works out for you -- Sass x
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Hi
a tricky problem! Give him time. Some people can't stand the thought of age gaps, even if they are only a year. Don't bugg him about it, let him know he's special but don't push him. Maybe he likes you a lot but has his eye on someone else and is just letting you down gently?
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reader, Jack Bauer's lover +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Hey sweety,
sounds to me like this guy is big on his ego. Just because he is that little bit older he thinks it makes a difference?
I have been out with a lad and there had been a 6 year age gap between us, listen sweety, true love happens regardless of age, height, looks, hair colour ect,
I think that if you did go out with this guy he would wind you up too much by saying your younger then me ect.
There is someone out there for everyone, and i think that this isnt the guy for you. He doesnt make any sense.
I know at your age a couple of months between you can be a big difference, but when he matures he will realise what a girl he threw way.
He said no the first time, and trust me, by asking him and asking him again will only make him say no more.
You cannot force anyone to go out wih you. Only they and their feelings can make that choice. So go with your heart darling, and move on, this guy doesnt deserve a nice girl like you.
I would love to hear you comments
Take care hun xx
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reader, Alexamanoo +, writes (13 April 2006):
Well he is a bit of an idiot, but... If it really seems that he's not intersted, then move on. You have to. If he's obsessed with the minute age difference then you're better off away from him. I don't know. He likes, you but doesn't want to date you.
Ask him why e has this issue over such a small difference and if he still refuses, again, forget about him.
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