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*onya
writes:I started seeing a guy that is friends with my ex boyfriend. But the other issue is he dates my ex's sister. They all know about us. It's been going on for 8 months now. What do I do? Initially I wanted revenge with my Ex. I want to break it off but I love him now.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (21 November 2008):
 Never try revenge again and never try to make someone else jealous. As you can see it causes a lot of troubles and drama. Also, its not very nice to use others in the scheme because they get hurt as well when they find out something unkind was going on.
Hopefully you learned by this. lol
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (21 November 2008):
hiyah, your post was slightly confusing but from what i can make out you have got yourself into more than you can handle and have fallen too deep. its risky and youve fell the bad way. revenge is good for a bit but long term can be damaging on the people invloved,as youve figured... you say you love him but hes dating some other girl? i think. all i can say is if he loved you i dont think hed be dating someone else. also the fact that your ex is a constant crop up in your 'relationship' seems to me like your not fully over him? past shoul remain in the past and its a bit unfair to use someone to hurt another this is one of the consequences! the best thing you can do is sort it in your own head and decide what it is you want.you need to be 100% becuz if you have any doubt then it should be a no. a relationship based on flse pretnces doesnt usally hold a lot of future but you say you feel strong feelings for him so maybe you could make it work?best if luck in your decsion and future plan xxps sorry if ive misinturprted your question i found it hard to relate to what your situation was. x
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