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writes: A couple of months ago I found out that my partner was cheating on me with his ex-girlfriend of 3 years. When I found out I made a hurried decision and dumped him, which I regretted because he was in fact not cheating with her. But in all that hurt and anger I began a rebound relationship with one of my mates. It was nothing serious, got to the point of kissing him but once I got back with my original partner I ended the fling. However, I did stay in contact with the guy I had the fling with, went to restaurants, concerts etc but my partner found out about the whole thing and was deeply distressed. We had a second breakup but got back together on the conditions that I would stop meeting up with the other man. However, things are not good between us, he neither picks up the phone on me nor does he text back any more. When I see him we just have sex (not making love) and go our separate ways. He has no respect for me and calls me names constantly. Even his friends join in the name calling and he just lets them. What should I do? Leave the relationship or keep my chin up and make things up to him? I love him and I know he loves me he just hurting at the moment.
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reader, beula_the_salty +, writes (3 August 2006):
i would listen to the first reply you got back! it's not worth staying with this guy if he's going to treat you like this. yes you made a mistake but that was nothing and in the past now. it just seems like this guy is seriously bitter about what happened. i think you should move on and forget about this guy.
good luck. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2006): if he loves you, why would he call you names? let alone let his friends call you names, as well. that doesn't seem like love to me. and the fact that you say he has no respect for you doesn't seem like love, either. love isn't about jealousy or anger. and it's not about name-calling and disrespect when things don't go your way. if this is how he's going to react when something small happens, imagine how he's going to react with larger, bigger problems? rather than communicate, he'd rather shut you out and be a jerk. he needs to either straighten up or be out of the picture. because while it's understandable for him to be upset about you still contacting your ex, it's not understandable for him to be carrying on like this. you guys just need to communicate. the best of luck.
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