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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend has expressed some out there ideas in the bedroom like sharing me with another guy or a threesome with another girl because he was unsure about being in a monogamous relationship. He has changed his ideas now though and we have sorted through these fantasizes.. he realizes that they are just fantasies. Anyway what concerns me now is that last time we had sex he wanted me to lay still with my legs straight on my back. What it seemed like to me is that his fantasy was that he was taking advantage of me like he is the experienced one and I am a virgin or something. He had his eyes closed and then when he looked at me he looked different in his eyes.It was weird. It's not a case of him not wanting to come to early, he can hold onto it well.It was actually a little creepy.. Can someone give me some ideas as to why he wouldn't want me to interact...Was it because he didn't want me to ruin his fantasy?Does it feel good for males when their partner is lying in that position?Thanks
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reader, mammaboo  +, writes (25 November 2011):
 Why don,t you ask him why. If he is open with you about sex he will tell you if not then yes its a little wierd!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 November 2011):
 I guess it was just a position that he wanted to try, and yes it probably did feel good to him. Your legs being together can sometimes be good for the woman because it adds more friction during sex, so it is possible that he was thinking of you as well. However if it is worrying you then talk to him, but I think you may be thinking a bit to much in to this and over reacting.
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