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writes:my girlfriend x now was seeing a man for 2 years then finished him and went out with me she always said that she thought she would have been single for a few months but instead went out with me we hit it off and it got so seriuse that we both said we loved each other (which is a big deal for me considering the only realithionships ive had have been one night stands when i was in the army) and i told her i could spend the rest of my life with her and she said the same then 4 days later she broke up with me and stoped answering my calls she said she wanted to be single and she wasnt happy wich is a complete lie cause i no she was happy its just we had a rough week once and we argued on the fri befor we broke up i eventually got her to invite me into her house and i asked her were u never happy and she said she was but she just wanted to be single i tried to go with her but at the last second she said she couldnt and i left her house and she txt me this morning saying that she wants to be friends but i dont want to to lie to myself and pretend thaat am ok with her not being with me shes really hurt me but i carnt help thinking deep down inside me that we will be together again soon what should i do plz help
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reader, steven 25206542 +, writes (8 March 2007):
steven 25206542 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank u for your reply userid am going to her house to night cause she wants to explain some stuff (joy lol) thanks for your reply tho
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reader, userid  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 Steven,I am sorry for your heartache...The problem with this situation is that she was on a rebound. Women on the rebound are unpredictable...and emotional...she just got out of a long relationship. I believe that many people should take a breather after a lengthy relationship and feel comfortable in their own skin before dating someone else. Sweetie- I am sure she did love you...I think she is just very confused. Give her sometime...and distance to figure out what she wants and ask her to do the same. Tell her it is going to be hard for you to be "Just friends" with her and you need time to think. Time heals all wounds. Both of you need to take a time out and get some fresh air!I hope I helped some.Sincerely,Userid
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