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writes: I don't know if you will be able to answer my question, but I thought I needed an outside opinion and nobody else seems to want to try to answer my question. Here's my "story"... I have Loved this Guy for almost three years now. I met him when he was a senior in High school and I was the lowly freshman. We became friends, but we were never REALLY all that close, after all I only had one class with him. I fell in Love with him right away and I haven't stopped loving him since. Now he is a college sophomore and I am a junior in high school. We are still friends. We write and E-mail each other, but I have only been able to actually see him twice since he has graduated even though he goes to school less than a half hour from where I live. He is extremely busy, plus it is slightly awkward (for me at least) because like I said before we were technically not that close before he graduated. I have never told him how I felt for fear of losing what little I have with him now, but there isn't a second that goes by that I don't think about him. Now he is talking about moving states away, for his music. I want to tell him...something...before he goes. I don't know how much he knows about how much I actually care about him, but I need to let him know at least a part of how much I care before he leaves. How can I tell him? Should I tell him I Love him or is that too much for now? Also, this is something I feel like should be done is person, but I don't know if I can do that...Is a letter too impersonal? I'm just kind of stuck right now and any advice you have for me would be greatly appreciated. -sigh
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (21 December 2005):
Perhaps without going the full Monty, why not say to him, I am going to miss you - will you miss me? Ask to meet up for a farewell - if he declines forget it. If he accepts then he may well be interested.
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (20 December 2005):
 Hi there
Let me try and set your mind at ease, there is nothing wrong with sending a letter telling your special some one just how you feel about them, infact writing a letter makes it so much easier to express your feelings.
Why do you think so many of us girls keep diaries, because we express our daily feelings and emotions on paper which is exactly what a letter is only this time the diary entry isn't addressed as "Dear Diary" it's addressed to "To the man of my dream"
Don't be afraid to show or tell that special person just how you feel about them, because you will regret it, if he means that much to you then you owe it to him and your HEART to tell him, who knows he might just feel the same way and is too scared to tell you.
Men aren't as open as women are and that is a gift that we have, because without emotion there would be no love and without love what do you have?
I hope that helped in some way?
Would love feedback on how it goes.
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