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*omOliver
writes:Me and my ex girlfriend we're together for a year and a half and we weren't just boyfriend girlfriend we were also best friends and I miss her everyday. Whilst we were broken up she saw a pic of me on facebook talking to another girl and she got really angry and said we'd never get back together now and then she said she likes somebody else. And she had a go at me for going out loads but we're not together soo why is she bothered and she goes out patrying more than me anyway. I want her back badly what do I do to get her back.We broke up about 6 weeks ago because I got drunk at her prom and embrassed her in front of her family and friends. We've broken up before and she said if we ever broke up again we would never get back together. But when I tried to get her back via calling her, txting her and emailing her she said no but she also said if you stop beig stupid we could get back together and if we stay friends maybe we'll get back together. And we went shopping the other week and it was fun talkng about the old days and we arranged to go out more often to the cinema but ever since then she has said she's too busy and we're not meant to be. What should I do to get her back please any advice I'm trying to get the courage to ring her and talk to her thanks. And is 6 weeks too late (but I've seen her 3 times during those three weeks, she saw me at a party and got reaaly angry with me and I went round to her house to plead with her to get back with me lol and she asked me to go shopping with her). We were together for ages is she really over me or just saying it because I ruined her prom. Because we were going out for a year and a half I spent alot of my free time with her and I'm not as close as I used to be with my friends. I still go out with them but I still miss her tremendously
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reader, the cat's pajamas +, writes (19 August 2008):
 Well firstly I think it was a bit overreactive on her part by getting angry at you because of a picture. But that might just be my opinion :/ But If she is getting angry at you a lot like you said, about you going out, then she clearly still has feelings for you.I commend you for calling her and emailing, being persistent in your aim to et her back, perhaps if you leave the messaging etc. for a week, though it might be hard, and then call her or maybe send an email/text asking to meet up casually.When you do meet up with her ask her for a straight answer if there is any possibility about you two getting back together for real, tell her you are sorry about the prom and everyone makes mistakes from time to time (although I am sure you have already but remind her sincerely).Also when asking her if you can get back together as more than friends explain to her that it is unfair for her to keep on stringing you on like this. Because from what I can tell this is what she seems to be doing and meeting up with you when it 'suits her' and the rest of the time is ignoring you completely - saying she is busy and you are not meant to be. As well as this tell her how much you miss her :)I really hope this advice helps you get this sorted out, good luckxps. if she says she doesn't want to get back together ask if she wants to be mates again, from what i can tell she was/is a big part of your life not only as a love interest but also as a friend.
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