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I am shocked that my husband had a bisexual encounter 8 years ago!

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Question - (17 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My husband told me last night that he experimented a few times with another guy. He said that it was when he was in his early 20's (about 7 or 8 years ago). I am totally weirded out and don't know what to do. He said he might do it again if I was there as a threesome type thing. I asked him if he is bisexual and he said "I guess". I am just so shocked but mainly feel decieved. I don't want to be intimate with him anymore and I can't stop thinking about it. Help...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008):

cupidguy you should be aware that std's are spread by people being promiscous and not taking proper precautions. it has nothing to do with the sexuality of a person but the more unprotected sex they have the more they are at risk. it is dangerously ignorant to claim there is a "safer zone" outside male/male sexual activity. everyone is equally at risk so everyone has to take equal precautions. please try to refrain from making such narrow-minded accusations in future.

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