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writes: Im 14 and i have problems at school and someone told my mate that they were fighting and so i was like Oh My God! So i went into school and asked the people they were ''fighting'' with and they didnt know anything bout it and i said to the person, '' please dont tell anyone that i asked you cause i dont want to start anymore crap, and then people heard the whole conversation and then they all walked up to me and had a go at me.! the head of my year at school said to me come into my office and so i said ok then and i started crying and then they all found out and now everyone hates me and they all said that themselves and they also all said that i got the head of year involved but i didnt, they did if anything because if they wanted to have a go at me then they shouldn't do it when the head of year is standing there, what am i going to do? i shouldent of let them get to me but i have. i dont want to go back to school to probably get beaten up and be hated!!PLEASE HELP ME AND GIVE ME SOME GOOD ADVICE,?Thank youu.x Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): This shit happens. You learn to live with it and plus you shouldn't give two shits about what people think of you! It makes you even more self consious in the future which in my opinion is not a good thing. If they're hating let them have something to hate about. I know enough girls that got in shit but still come to school no matter what people say to them. If anything it makes them stronger! I'm not saying stand up to them but just learn to live with it. I know how you feel and honestly you have to live with it and don't even think about changing school because that makes you seem like a fool. End of. Go school and be optimistic about things. Don't be scared to get in fights either. It's the most natural things in school and at least you will get some experience. Just to finish off I'd like to say a quote from a Dizzie Rascal song... FIX UP, LOOK SHARP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): its okay don,t worry youll be fine
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reader, Clairee.x +, writes (19 August 2008):
Clairee.x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell thats a big problem .i cant move forms because all the year HATE me.my mum got hold of education welfare and asked them to chat.i hope to god that i can have home school but i no it costs a lot. and my mum doesent have that sort of money.but i am not going back to the schoolx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): Childline isn't too far if you are feeling so desparate....is there another high school that you can move to? Or can you move forms so that none of your classes are with the culprits? if its still bad in Sept go and talk to the new head of year make them aware of your situation.
HTH
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reader, Clairee.x +, writes (17 August 2008):
Clairee.x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You But I REALLY think that Childline is a bit too far.
thank you and i rated your answer OK !
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