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writes: i have just split up from my boyfriend who i love very much, we have been together for two years and been trying for a baby for a year we was in the middle of buying a house together and after a silly row, i told him it was over this has happened twice before but this time he has thrown me out as we was living with his dad. but less than a week later hes moved in with the girl next door and wont answer my texts or calls and says hes happier without me as i moan to much i thought we was very happy he always said he only ever wanted me hes just got my name tattoo on his arm and he is such a lovery man so i though its as if i never excised i am so lost without him living in a small village no mates my age i just cry day and night got pills from docs still no better i just think about him all the time and his new girlfriend we had a strange connection like soal mates always thinking and doing things at the same time i just dont know what to do we feel out over a month ago pls help me.
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reader, sibaan +, writes (8 June 2006):
 when you dare to love you dare to hurt.
first thing is first, you mustnt blame yourself at all because it seems he is the sellfish one. he cant just abuse your love like he has it isnt right. i know your hurting but you have to take each day as it comes. every day is a new step in the process of living without the one you love.
your boyfriend has left you feeling terrible and unfortunantly no pill or shrink can take that pain away.
you need to come to terms with it and really think it through.
guys are spiteful and you are probably feeling scared and very uneasy but you are still a great person with so much to offer.
i have been where you are and believe me it took me a long time and it still hurts every single day but i know that know matter what he will never be able to replace me.
you are better than him.
if you need to talk any time of the day just email me and ill be here for you all the way.
a broken heart hurts more than anything in the world but with a friend by your side the pain will seem better until one day it doesn't hurt anymore.
keep smiling
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