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writes:me and my ex were together on and off for three and a half years, im 26 he is 22, we have a 2 year old son we got married six months ago and three months later we broke up and i moved to another town,it was too hard there so me and my son came back, im totally attracted to what tequnically is my husband, last week he told me he has a 24 year old gorlfriend with a daughter the same age, and that my son has met her and play's with her kid, I was in shock at first, im calming down, I do love him, I married him for crying out loud. we did have a pretty hard stuggle of a relationship and that, but im just confused by his new girl and kid, totally feel replaced and have to drop him off and im scared of seeing her cause i wouldnt know how to handle it. he said he never loved me and it all just kills someone gove me some good advice that would make this situation better, pls.
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reader, NJmomabear  +, writes (30 April 2007):
 Those feelings are very hard to deal with but he is only 22, he's probably not even ready for a family and its just a matter of time before he does the same to this new girl and her poor kid. I wouldn't feel replaced, but I would feel sorry for them.
Your biggest concern should not only be how this impacts you, but how your son is gonna now have to handle this while visiting in that train-wreck waiting to happen situation. Its your job to protect him. Swallow as much anger and pride as you can to really put his best interest first.
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