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writes:this guy i like has been showing huge interest in me the past few weeks, and then today he was trying to not look at me...I don't feel like he is running from me or totally giving me the cold shoulder, but I just don't understand what happened that he is trying to ignore me...anyone have a clue why a guy does this?I'm hoping his friend gave him advice to do this, so that I would make a move on him...He's usually attentive when he sees me walk into the room, I know he saw me today, but he was just pretending to look straight at his friend, do u know what kind of look i'm talking about? even though he was looking in the direction of his friend in front of him, I felt he was looking at me in the corners of his eyes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI guess I will find out tomorrow if I do get to talk to him, well the past few weeks the way he's been acting is like..being all excited when he sees me..he'll smile big look down back at me then walk past me really fast. One time he and his friends were standing by a bathroom i was coming up behind them and he turned his around and saw me coming and charged into the bathroom and his friend was laughing out loud at him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your reply, I hope this is whats going on and not him losing interest in me, I can't stop thinking about him and its making me feel a little sick :( I am planning to talk to him tomorrow, and I hope he isn't avoiding me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your reply, I hope this is whats going on and not him losing interest in me, I can't stop thinking about him and its making me feel a little sick :( I am planning to talk to him tomorrow, and I hope he isn't avoiding me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): Heh Well I might have a possibility from my own experience. If Hes been really been forward with his interest in you and you haven't really done anything to respond either way to it then it might be that he is just a little afraid of you or rather ashamed of himself. See sometimes when a guy, or anyone for that matter, who usually doesn't reveal their feelings tries to but meets no clear response they might tend to feel dumb for even trying. I've been there but mine is only one specific case. Now of course he could just be operating on some ill fated advice as you've assumed; acting cool in other words. That wouldn't be too uncommon either but I don't really know. If you really want to know the answer then perhaps you could simply ask him yourself?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): I'm a guy and I've done that. I'm kind of shy and I think I tend to start doing that when I start to feel strongly toward a woman. I can't really explain why, I just get nervous around the one I like the more I become attracted to her. I would try to get alone with him so that you can see how he feels; if he's more comfortable and seems very interested when you two are alone, I bet that means that he likes you but is shy. Good luck.
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