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writes:Ok, so I have this minor little problem that I need advice to help resolve. Well, theres this person whom i really really like, and i am pretty sure (95%) that this person likes me back too, but heres the thing, that person was my college teacher, I say *was* because I left college earlier on this year. But thoughts and memories of that person still resides in my head, and I just can't get over them. This person once told me that we were becoming too close for comfort and are overstepping the boundaries, and that when my exams are over we could become "buddies" but not just yet. How do I interpret this? A friendly gesture, or a more romantic one. This teacher isn't particularly older than myself, and is imensley attractive in my opinion, although my friends beg to differ lol... Everyone used to tell me how this teacher took a huge shine to me, even though i was the naughtiest in their class and how they used to let me off with everything i do. I have to admit, the teacher was pretty leniant when it concerned me. Like once I came into class after having some drinks, and i must have insulted my teacher, and i apologised to them later on explaining to them that i had been under the influence while i had said that particular comment, and they let it go, another incident happened where i puked up in college, and the teacher got done for protecting me because again, i was doing things that i wasn't ment to. I went back to the college, and me and this teacher got chatting, and we got reminising abt the bad times we had encountered, they told me how they heard every insult directed at them, and how i used to direct my anger towards them for some reason, and other stuff which i can't particularly remember. So i said to them straight up "do u want to know what i sed abt u" to which they replied yes, and i told them that if it offended them it wasn't my fault, and it was their choice to hear it, i then repeated a long list of names which i called them, including "bitch", "hoe" when i said hoe to them, they got very defensive and said in a snobby manner "how could i be a hoe if i've been with the same partner for a year" and gave me a dirty look lol and then i asked them what they said behind my back abt me, their immediate reply i cannot remember, but i remember them saying how i used to ruin their evenings for them, and that this teacher constantly questioned their abilited to teach, and then i was shocked to hear when they said next, that if they had a gun, they would have no hesitation to shoot me! (in a serious manner)=\ the teacher started laughing, and i was devestated... It's now been sevral months, and i have matured immensley, the question is, do i get in contact with this teacher or would i just embarass myself? Thank you for reading this, and hopefully give some insight on the situation x
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reader, nologo  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 A story of this type happens extremely rarely.
Why nonpersonal address "teacher" is repeated.
"This teacher isn't particularly older than myself, and is imensley attractive in my opinion"
Probably this your phrase should be a key to understanding.
"the question is, do i get in contact with this teacher or would i just embarass myself?"
Your expectations are unrealistic: "the teacher" is supposed to have other priorities.
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