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writes:Last night my bf and I tried a new sex position for the first time. We've been together for years so we're not a new couple, we know each other. He came, I saw it, and within 5 minutes of us finishing he was already hard from "thinking about it", he said, and ready to do it AGAIN. He went ON and ON about it and how he wanted it again. The thing is though, in my mind, if he got that excited that soon after wouldn't that mean he wasn't very satisfied the first time? Doesn't that mean he didn't get off good enough? Reply to this Question
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reader, YouWish +, writes (7 August 2015):
 Actually, OMG...that's an extreme compliment to how good it actually WAS with you. Women having multiples are never questioned as not being "good" enough. For a guy to have multiples, or as close to them as possible, means it was better than good. Don't wreck it by making it an issue where he feels badly about letting go that much. You should be holding your head up high with a massive ego boost for reducing him to putty in your hands. Trust me, he's going to want it so much now. I know what that's like, big time.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 August 2015):
 Nope, it doesn't mean it wasn't "good enough" the first time, it means it got him so excited he wanted to do it again ASAP - now maybe a few months from now, he will only be able to do it once, then need a longer break.
If your sexlife was getting a little stale before trying this new thing, it's not that strange that he would be ready for a round 2 5-10 minutes later.
This is why it's always a good thing to spice up the sex life every now and then.
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