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We still love each other but relationship is not going in the right direction

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Question - (26 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *iAiRo writes:

Man it seems like i'm on this site a lot.

My girlfriend who we will call Kylie(not really her name) recently moved back to her home town because she is depressed living in the place we were living(now its just me living here). And next month she is going to Spain for 2 months. She thinks there is nothing wrong with the relationship but that is far from true. I know there has to be something wrong, because she wont come to visit me and i'm tired of going to visit her. Also when I do go I get treated like crap by her dad and her mother seems to think I owe her something. Kylie also doesn't treat me with much respect either, last week i had a bruised rib and she kept hitting me there and laughing.

I know I seem like a whiny little baby, but its important to me. Now I am getting depressed in the place I'm living in. I dont like it here anymore and I dont like the place Kylie is living because her dad doesnt give us any privacy and expects me to do work for him which I absolutely hate. I want to move home to my hometown which is going in the opposite direction to where she lives. Which means i'll have to take 3 buses to get to her and make the journey about 5 hours in length.

Knowing she is going away for a few months and will never visit me wherever I live, I dont know how much longer the relationship is going to last. We dont have much lust for each other anymore but we do love each other and we have been dating for 1.5 years(just thought id add that), so people knew something of the relationship.

My question is

Does anyone know what I should do?

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A male reader, MiAiRo United States +, writes (27 February 2011):

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MiAiRo agony auntThanks ampersand. I read your answer once and its the best answer i could have hoped for. Thank you again

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