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writes:hi there, I have been on and off flirting with this girl i work with since september. There is major chemistry between us. We share long glances followed by smiles. We whisper things across the room to each other, and she remembers things i have said ages ago. We are both single and its great, i like her alot.Lately the flirting has been getting less and less, although something happens every now and then to show that the spark is still there.The thing is i occasionally go out with this other girl i know for a drink, and we are just mates and thats it, i don't feel anything for her. Maybe my co-worker is getting the wrong impression. So consequently i hear her telling the other girls that she is now seeing someone, but i feel her looking over at me as she is talking, as if to see how i react. I try not to react, so i act as if im not listening, but inside it hurts.I really do feel alot for this girl, as i feel we have fantastic chemistry together, all that flirting must have meant something.Being a work environment its very hard to talk to her on her own.
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reader, MagniModi +, writes (2 January 2007):
 I've been there man. If you don't want to talk to her about it directly (I suspect that you're relishing the innocent flirtation or you would have probably spoken to her about it ages ago) then try find another way of letting her know that you and that other chickiwick are just buddies. Like,try wearing a badge that says 'me and that other chickiwick are just buddies'. No? Try slip it into conversation. On the other hand, she may just be leading you on or flirting because it's in the office and that kind of thing is very 'en vogue' lately. If that's the case, my advice is to cut her brakes. Peace, buddy and remember, the grass always lands greener on the buttered side.
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (2 January 2007):
 You should arrange time before or after work to talk. To see if she does have feelings for you. Set her straight about your mate that there is nothing there but friendship!
take her out for a drink when both of you have time off from work.
I hope that her feelings for you are mutual!!! Good luck and let me know how it went for you!!!
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