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writes:I'm 25 and I've been in love with a girl since I was 18. We met in college and were together twice for about 2 years each time. We've stayed close over the years by talking on the phone frequently. I should mention we now live about 900 miles apart. Anyway, we visited with each other for an evening last month(we were in the same place visiting friends) and were both crying by the end locked in a kiss. I love her more than anybody else I've ever been with. The same goes for her. There is a certain magic between us that I can't put into words. It never fades with time or when we're apart. It is just this constant feeling of calm whenever we talk or are together. I've never felt that way for anyone else and I don't think I ever could. She is my love. What should I do?[Moderator note: Please detail real facts, reasons of growing apart, etc.] Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): Hi! There isnt a lot to go on here, why did you break up? Why are you living so far apart? Is there any chance that one of you could move closer to the other one? My boyfriend lives about 200 miles away from me, so I know how hard it is to be apart, but things can work, if you love eachother enough, and both really want things to work. I think communication is the key, talk to her, tell her how you feel and try to get her to be honest about how she feels. What do you want from her/you guys together? It seems like you both really love eachother. Are you dating other people when not with eachother? That could complicate things. If it really is as magical as you say, Im sure that your family would be willing to support you moving to be with her, if you have a job that can move around like that! Or if you are still in college, maybe you could speend the summer together or somethign like that, to try to give yourselves time to sort things out and make better decisions. If you have something this amazing, its worth trying everything to be together. But make sure you are both in the same boat before you make any decisions. I dont know if this helps, but feel free to message me if you want to chat more about things!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): wow same situation as me at least how you feel about her is the same way as i feel i say go for it talk to her about it and see if you two cant have a permenant relationship with each other one of my favorite quotes "love will find a way"definetley applies here
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