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writes: Last weekend I met my mother's best friend's son! He's really cute and we got on really well. He asked for my number so I gave it to him and he kissed me. Ever since I haven't stopped thinking about this boy! I'm crazy over him. I've tried ringing him but his phone is off. What can I do now? I don't want to seem obssesive, or am I ? Is it possible to fall in love after just one night?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): hey trust me its not impossible it happened to me a few months ago but he turned out to be the complete opposite of who i thought he was. It could even be that i saw the real him and he got scared but i have no clue havent spoken to him in months. So my advice to you babe is be careful sometimes a kiss is really just a kiss.
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reader, communicatrix +, writes (19 July 2005):
 Um, no—it's not possible to fall in love after one night. At least, not as I define the word "love", which I think has more to do with actions than feelings.
It is very possible to be head-over-heels in lust with someone after two seconds, and some good kissing always stokes that fire.
So, too, does unavailability, by the way. Do you think maybe a little bit of your infatuation has to do with him seeming less interested in you than you are in him? We humans do seem to like a chase.
However you look at it, I think that if you want to retain any shred of your dignity, you need to walk away from this one. Find some distractions to take your mind off of him, and be assured that if you are on his mind, he'll figure out how to get in touch with you.
Good luck!
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