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writes: I have a boyfriend of just over a year.We get on really well and he treats me perfectly.My mother is dying of cancer and he is a rock for me.I was involved with someone who is 7 years older than me who I was deeply in love with and he said he loved me but I was only 17 and he was 24. He had a long term girlfriend and everything went wrong.He is now back in my life after 3 years because we work together again and he is giving me signs that he still likes me. He text me the other night in a drunken state but text me again in the morning when he was sober saying 'please forget about what I wrote last night'He is seeing a girl we work with and obviously I am in a relationship. I don't know what to do because as much as I try, I can't seem to stop feeling the way I do. I feel like I could never find what I had with him anywhere else but with my boyfriend, it doesn't feel like that. Help!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (19 July 2005):
Tell him to stop texting you and if he doesnt, change your number.
Think of your boyfriend in all of this rather than yourself. How would you feel if he was texting an ex???
You have to break off your relationship with your ex for good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2005): You are undergoing a difficult and confused period in your life. The last thing you need right now is your ex back in your life!
Simply look at the facts- he cheated with you previously, and obviously didn't like you enough to make a commitment to you. Then three years later, he returns into your life, and begins playing with your emotions with drunken text messages. However, bear in mind that he regretted sending you that in the morning. I pity the girl he is seeing at the moment, and it would be very dangerous territory to enter a confused love triangle in your working environment.
Your current boyfriend sounds like a good, geniune and supportive partner. Is there a chance that you may be able to work through things with him? If not and you truly feel that you cannot be with your boyfriend then you may need to reconsider the future of your relationship, but please try to get your ex out of your thoughts, I fear he will only hinder your life and hurt you, which is the last thing you need right now.
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