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*eezy41
writes:I met with this guy on the dating website. We had alot of things in common. After a week, we decided to meet up. He asked my phone number so he can send me the direction of the restaurant. I did not want to write my number on the dating website and he had the same mindset.so we met. He was pretty fun but i was kinda shy. Two times he asked me what i was thinking. And that he is a good observer.but i had nothing going on in mind. After dinner, we went to movie theater. We had 2 cars and met up in the movie theater. Whenever he texts, he was contacting me through website. At the end of night, we hugged each other. And he said catch u later. He did not even ask my phone number. Then he texted me via dating website, if i made it safely. And that see u soon.I said the same in here. Then next morning, i texted him to text my phone number and gave it to him. Never received a text from himWhat should i do? Is he into me? Or he was just being nice?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 April 2017):
 Just because he made sure you got home safe doesn't mean he is romantically interested, it just means he is a decent man making sure you arrived safely. Just give it some time and don't rush things, it has only been one date so slow it down and see where it goes.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 April 2017):
 I think he didn't ask for your number because you had declined giving it once (for safety reasons) - maybe he didn't want to get shot down on the date too?
While I think it makes sense to be cautious handing out your number, you also need to be able to tell a guy (when meeting in person here is my number).
You said YOU were expecting him to ask again the guy is not a mind reader. Probably as afraid of rejection as anyone else.
I'd just see if he gets in touch in a day or two more. And if he still hasn't by the end of a week, YOU move on. There are, I'm sure other guys on that dating site who seems promising?
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reader, deezy41 +, writes (2 April 2017):
deezy41 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI was expecting him to ask. Thats why i waited till the end of the night. When he did not, i had to text him in the dating website.
What does not make sense is if you are not into me, why you are asking me if i made home safely and that see you soon or that if i didnt work next day, he would like to show me more places?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 April 2017):
I'd give a few days. It might BE that he thinks he has to wait 3 days to contact you (like some dating books suggest) and it might be he wasn't interested after all.
What I don't get... is WHY didn't you give him your number when you met? If you liked him? Not that giving it later is not OK it would just have made sense to give it at the end if the night. IMHO.
However, the BALL is in his court. If you don't hear from him (one way or another after a week - it's time to move on).
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