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writes:She is one of my close friend, in class. I have ask her out a couple of times but she had only asked me out once. However when I ask her how her day was, she would give me her answer and ask me why am I asking and is it because I want to have a meal with her. She would agree to go with me but she always put it in a way that I am the one that needs her to keep me company. That is true of course. But I just find it weird because how am i suppose to know if she is interested when she puts in that way. Like is she going out with me to keep me company because I am lonely or she is genuinely interested in spending time with me? How am I to know if I have a chance with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 April 2017):
 You just need to ask her. Next time she says are you asking me because you want a meal with me, you reply and say well are you interested in going out with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2017): Hi there fellow malaysian hahah! Anyways, i myself am a typically malaysian girl who chances are could give you a little advise here. Honestly, you should wait it out and just talk as friends. I mean if you guys hang out and keep each other company, thats really sweet and nice as friends. but clearly i think she's either not interested in going further than friends or she just wants you to chase her for a while before she gives in. but my advise would be stick to being friends for now and get to know each other better. COntinue with what you are doing like keeping her company and all but as long as she is not leading you on and just like leave you hanging. So be cautious but be a good friend for now.
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reader, princessjasmine  +, writes (1 April 2017):
I think you need to continue just talking to her and do not put any sort of pressure on her at all. She is obviously getting to know you. Just keep it relaxed and talk about normal things, don't talk about relationship stuff right now b/c it will push her away. Just take it slow and easy. You do have a chance with her if you just chat and have normal conversations. Do not be pushy. Keep it relaxed.
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