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writes: There is a man 3yrs younger than me that has told me that I am a fetish to him and that he could never think of anyone better to be with. We've been through the same old thing him telling me he really likes me etc, etc. He's my brothers mate and he's been coming onto me for the past 6 years. A couple of weeks ago he kissed me and I kissed him back. i met him and said i'm everything he's ever wanted but he's young and wants to enjoy himself. Im so confused. Does he like me? Reply to this Question
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reader, DannySanto +, writes (5 September 2006):
 Fetishes are simply desires based on lust. Do you really think that its a good idea to get with someone who simply sees you as a fetish? It looks a lot like this guy needs to grow up, and it sounds as if he's too young to commit to a loving relationship anyway. I think that he may be after one thing, its wise not to give it to him because the consequences afterwards could leave you feeling empty.
Steer Clear of this one, at least until he can show that he's grown up.
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (5 September 2006):
 One word comes into my mind.
Player.
You are not going to be happy with this guy, at least not until he matures.
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reader, bonym +, writes (5 September 2006):
 I am a fetish to him and that he could never think of anyone better to be with
You said it babes. I have to agree with the previous 2 replies as well, Ms. Tanya and Ponungalungb, it may be that he is really only after one thing. Do you really want to get involved? xXx
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reader, Ms. Tanya +, writes (4 September 2006):
 Oh, he likes you, alot to. However it sounds like he likes you only for your body. Talk to your brother, ask him what he thinks about it. And the thing about him liking you for your body is that he very well may grow to love you for your mind as well, if you give him the chance. But don't be fooled make sure he likes talking to you as much as having sex with you. Or you can decied not to put up with him only liking you for your body and tell him it wouldn't work and to leave you alone. Up to you.
I hope the future holds many answer for you!
~Ms. Tanya
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (4 September 2006):
 It sounds like he wants to get in your drawers. . . and not much more. If that's what you want, go for it. Otherwise, tell him to come back when he grows up.
Good luck!
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