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writes: Ill try to keep this short but want to give the full story in hopes of the best answer. I met my X almost 3 years ago and feel madly in love, we dated for 2 and a half years and had some problems (fights about me wanting to go out and her sayin no or one of us being to drunk ect) but were so extremely in love and made a pile of memories and plans for the future together. Then she got pregnant and after a vary hard time decided she was'nt ready to bring a baby in to the world just yet. Soon after the operation things went downhill , we felt so bad we could'nt move on, we could'nt talk about it and things got worse, finally she broke up with me sayin we both were'nt happy. She very quicky hooked up with a new man, this killed me and i fell in to a scene of drugs and booze and dirty girls for a short time. I met my new gf 4 months ago, and we get along very well, she loves me and we have great times together, but I am also have been talkin to my X on and off for the last months, we talk about what we had and lost and how happy we were and this and that, she still loves me and me her, but should i go back to her now that she has broken it off with this new man she went to, in ways my heart says yes but my head says no, I dont want to hurt either and thy hate each other, if i leave my gf to go with the X and it does'nt work out i've lost everything , but if i stay with her, will i always long for the chance to see if me and the X could ever get back the bliss we had, also my X is a vary jealous person and hates the idea of me ever having been with other ppl, im scared that would be the downfall to us if we reunited, her starting fights about who i'm with now, my current gf has a child from a relationship she had at a young age, and has a questionable past of sorts, but you can't beleive all you hear so how do i really know - im torn and have to do something quick , i dont want to lead anyone on but i dont want to lose out on a life of happyness and love. - sorry for my spelling
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reader, Ms. Tanya +, writes (5 September 2006):
 Whew. Man. Well, this girl your currently with, our you "Happy" with her? IF you are then I suggest you stay with her and try your best to forget your X. However if the girl you are currently with isn't working I say go for your X again. It sounds like you have two very jealous wemen wh owant you badly, and I'm afraid you just need to pick the one you think you have a better chance with.
Good luck hon!
~Ms. Tanya
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2006): hello my dear, its sounds that you both still really love each other' breaking up and have a distance for a while makes you two both realise that you really love each other. why not take a risk... but if you do that somebody will get hurt which is your new gf now what do you think of her' if you go back to your X' but its better to follow what your heart is saying. good luck.
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