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writes:Me and this guy been dating for a month im 18 he's 23 and he's been giving me mixed signals of how he feels about me.I think I'm pushing him away, trying to get the answer, but now he's mad at me because he's not replying back to my messages.I don't know what to do or should I just give up Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2015): At 18teen we always seem desperate to know what happens next .. a month is too soon to be wondering if he loves you as I take it that's what you wanta know .How do you know he's mad ? Has he said ..Why not send a last text . Saying I'm sorry to pest, and I didn't mean to go on so much. It's just I do like you lil more than I should and would be happy if we could continue to get to know each other and if I've I have blown it I will understand . Then back off and let him get back to you . Let him chase you .. Let him know that your life still rotates even without him init . The sun will shine, they'll still be laughter and going out . Take your time there is no rush .. when I met my husband I Was telling our oldest daughter we just kinda fitted . He took me out . I never asked if I was his gf it was kinda unspoken that we were a ting . Then months went by and the relationship deepened and by Christmas a whole year .. He told me he loved me and asked did I feel the same . We got engaged that Christmas . But didn't marry for while . Saved got a house . We were together that's all that mattered .You have to let things progress . You can't push or hollar or stamp your feet it doesn't quite work like that . Relax and if thing doesn't work then you know the next time . Don't wear your heart on your sleeve and get to know who your dating
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