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writes: This is completely ridiculous...me and my boyfriend for almost a year now are really shy when it comes to each other...well kind of. It took us about 7 months before I got the nerve to ask him to do something (just the two of us because we usually do something with our best friends because we have the same friends) and for the next like 2 months, everything was great. We did things often, almost every weekend, just the two of us.One night, after one of our high school basketball games, he was on his way to state wrestling and one of my best friends was there at the game that I haven't seen in months, who is a boy, so he decided to give me a ride home. My boyfriend saw me get into his car and he didn't like it. He knows there is nothing going on between us, but ever since that (3 months ago) we haven't done anything. He barely talks to me anymore and he says he's not mad and I know he's not because he doens't get mad about anything.He claims he doesn't talk to me anymore because I don't talk to him but that's complete bull...and for the last 6 months, I've been really depressed and idk, I know he cares, but he's not good at showing it.So to make a long, confusing question short...did his feelings for me change?...I just don't know what to do anymore.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (14 April 2006):
 I dont think his feelings for you changed, what is more likely is that seeing you get in that car traiggered some deep-seated insecurities. It sounds to me, reading from the screen, that you are both insecure.
I think you need to work on breaking down those barriers between you and this is going to involve alot of communication. You are going to have to sit down and talk about how you are both feeling. Try not to make it about judgment but about you expressing your feelings to each other.
Try and set the scene so that you will both feel comfortable and do something relaxing before hand. Hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2006): Awwww honey, you need a big long talk with him and make sure he understands that the other boy is just your friend and its him that you love. I think your lad might just be feeling a bit betrayed that you didn't wanna have a ride home with him and you chose another boy? I dunno, but you make him sound a real decent boyfriend, i'm sure he'd understand if you explained properly.
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