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writes: I just got out of an ugly relationship, and it was an ugly breakup. I've had a crush on this guy (I'll call him Ryan), and I've thought about him on and off for 2 years and he never goes away.Everytime we stop talking, we end up meeting and end up talking again. I even thought about him when I was with my bf. He just broke up with his gf. Lately hes been coming over a lot and my mom makes us breakfast. We cuddle, we watch movies, we hold hands etc. We have sex...and we both like eacho ther. My parents love him and his friends love me.Anyway I don't know if he wants a gf. I want more than anything to be with him. I should probably stop wearing my heart on my sleeve. I don't know how to ask him out and he hasn't asked me out yet (we're "seeing each other"). Am I being stupid in thinking I can have him all to myself? Am I wishing on something that's not there? I mean, if he hasn't asked me out yet does that mean he doesn't want me? Am I being unreasonable or pushy or rushing for him to ask me out? Should I give up? everytime i give up on him..he comes back\
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reader, leroy_jackson_jr +, writes (2 November 2005):
Girl, he ain't into you. You are a better than nothing chick, sorry to be cold. You are a friend, a chick of convinence, nothing more, and you never will be. You're only hope, would be to dump him, never speak to him, unless he is willing to committ to something. Might work, likely won't. Get over it, and find someone new.
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reader, beenthere +, writes (2 November 2005):
hi. just because a bloke doesn't "ask you out", doesn't mean he doesn't want you. My fella never did that. Now we're living together. if he keeps coming and going, find out why. you need to let him know that you need confirmation as to whether the relationship is "serious". if he wants only you, he will let you know somehow but don't push him into commitment. if he is seeing anyone other than you, tell him you want him to be faithful to you or no sex at all. Open relationship can not work. Apart from this, you are at risk of infection if he is unfaithful. or another woman turning up to say she's pregnant with his child. make up your mind if he's worth keeping, then let him know how you feel. hope that's helped
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reader, theagonyuncle +, writes (2 November 2005):
Hi, I would like to say that if you are having sex with this guy and watching movies together, then you are doing the things that boyfriend and girlfriends do. Ask him how important you are to him, maybe tell him that you are falling in love with him if you feel that way. Don't hold back on life too much, if you have fallen for this person then you have to make your feelings clear to him. I'm sure you will get a good response. Good luck !
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