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writes:I have liked this girl for about 3 years now, we hung out and we really seemed to hit it off, the problem is recently i found out that she is one of my friends little sister (i should have realized by the last name). He says he is cool with me if i want to date her, but i still feel uneasy. any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, M@i  +, writes (7 March 2010):
My suggestion would be that if you plan on dating this girl, u better be serious about it. Dont take this girl for granted because not only would u lose the girl but ur friend as well. good luck.
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reader, kristianna +, writes (7 March 2010):
well if he said that hesz cool with it then you should go ahead because if he wasnt im sure he would of said it from the start.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 Just sit down with your friend and make sure that he really is ok with the idea of the two of you dating and everything that comes with it. If he agrees then i don't see any reason for you to be uncomfortable =]
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (7 March 2010):
 There is nothing wrong with going through with it. Just keep in mind that what ever bump you have with the sister you will have with your friend also...blood is thicker than water, remember?
Your uneasiness probably comes from the fact that keeping your budding relationship on the DL until you are ready and comfortable to admit to it is just that much more difficult because you are dating the sister of one of your friends.
Remember that in spite of all the macho-bravado, us men are just as chatty and gossipy as the ladies.
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reader, Trans Am Man +, writes (7 March 2010):
 don't worry about, if you really like her go for it. If you're good to her and don't hurt her he'll never have any hard feeling towards you
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reader, Kenj +, writes (7 March 2010):
 If you love her then it shouldnt matter. Go for it!
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