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writes: Hey, I'm an 18 year old male with a 16 year old girlfriend. We get along great and always have a good time around each other no matter what we do. There's just one problem with our relationship. Sex. We haven't had sex or any sexual contact yet except for groping but it's getting really hard to keep myself in check and I'm scared that I'm going to do something that's going to ruin our entire relationship and I don't want that. So does any one have any advice on the subject? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (25 January 2006):
 One way around this maybe to actually talk about this rather than let things flow. Find out how she is feeling about it and if she is ready. If you just let things go naturally then in all liklihood you will come to an intense moment and you will end up doing it unplanned. All this might be fine and dandy but it could lead to regrets later.
I am not saying you have to rigidly plan things, what I am saying is you do need to communicate how each other is feeling to each other. This way there is far less likilihood of anything going wrong because you will both be aware of how each other feels and be able to proceed from there.
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