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writes: hi i've been with my boyfriend for over 14 months and when i ask for sex he always rejects me and never wants to do anything! is that normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2006): I was with a guy for 14 months and he didn't want to have sex and I did nothing about it and thought I could live with it. But I didn't. I cheated on him and it was the worst thing I have ever done. We broke up and now we barely talk. and he was one of my best friends even before we went out. So I definitely think you need to talk more and sort something out. repressing your confusion and hiding your feelings from him will only put a horrible strain on your relationship and you may end up doing something like I did.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (25 January 2006):
 I have to say 14 months is an awful long time to date and still not want sexual relations. However he must have his reasons. Has he given you a reason for his rejection?
It is a little hard to give you advice without knowing a little more and also knowing if you have established the reasons and if so what they are. If you don't know his rasons then I think you need to talk to him to establish them and proceed from there. Good luck.
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