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*orcus Moreen5
writes:Hi, am a girl of 22 years old and for the past 4months I have met a man double my age. Most of the times we have casual talks only. We meet but not regularly. He says he is single. I like the guy. To my suprise he just told me that he wants to see me naked, squeez me and all that, am really confused, I don't know where I stand with him and this conversation turned me off. Is it normal or okay for a guy to tell you he wants to sleep with you? We havnt even went out for a 1st date? We only meet for 20minutes max, in the mall or he passes by my house. Pls help Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 May 2013):
 I do not think it’s normal or acceptable for a man to tell a woman that he does not know well to say he wants to see her naked and squeeze her. This is not confusing, he’s being VERY clear what he wants. HE wants to bang your lovely young lithe body and put a feather in his aging sagging cap.
If you do not know where you stand with him, you can ASK him, but I KNOW where you stand with him… he wants to bed you.
His behavior is rude and disrespectful. He sees you as a conquest nothing more. Don’t waste your time on him.
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (13 May 2013):
 Stay away from him. Ignore him. Forget about him.
Stop trying to convince yourself that it might be normal cause its just disgusting of him to even request such when you guys barely know eachother. I'd think that at your age you already have drawn the conclusion that all he is after is sex.
Don't entertain him, its as simple as that.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (13 May 2013):
It sounds like he wants sex with absolutely nothing else. No relationship, no friends with benefits, just sex with a stranger.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (13 May 2013):
 He's a creep... Ignore him... and stay away from him... and give him no more of your time or attention... EVER!!!
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2013): Listen sweetheart he has told you as plain as he can what he wants from you. As you said yourself he wants you in the buff and is probably looking for rub and tug sessions. Tell lover boy no way.. You didn't sign up for this partial package did you? If you want more you set the pace and tempo. The bar is full of men like him. Don't be swayed by his bullshit stories and twinkling eyes. Let me tell you how my first date went with my present boyfriend of three years. Beautiful restaurant romantic dinner and we talked and talked and danced all night. Listen careful. He didn't grab or grope or try to shove his tongue down my throat . He walked me to my apartment door and gently kissed me and gave me a beautiful red rose and asked for another date. What can a girl say? The rest is history. You want this kind of first date no? Sure most women would also. Tell this guy to p^^s off. Don't stoop to his animal minimal instincts. I thought Neanderthals have gone extinct. Looks like they are still around. Move forward. Good luck.
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