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We have loads in common..I like her..she likes me. One problem..the age gap. What should I do?

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Question - (28 September 2006) 8 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

ok where do i start i think i really like this girl, we have loads in common we get along like strawberrys and cream and i also think she likes me a lot aswell. 2 problems 1 - shes my good friends sister and 2 -there is a age differance she is 16 and im 19. im confused can someone help thankyou

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2006):

Ok, there fella, if she is 21 and you are only 16, I think she is too old for you at this time in your life. In the US, you are still considered under age, and she is an adult and should not be dating a kid....please look for another girlfriend closer to your own age and things should go a lot smoother for you...forget about this one, just admire her as your mates cool older sister...I know you will find a great girl soon.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006):

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ok i feel like the most stupid and most confused guy in the world right now, i just found out that the 3 year gap isnt a 3 year gap more like a 5 year gap i mean how do u hide summin like that ok my heads really hurtin and i think i need to go think somewhere if anyone has any usefull information feel free to let me in on it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006):

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i reckon talking to her brother about it will be the worst thing to do, i mean how exactly am i supposed to do that. also i know she likes me so im just waiting untill she gets more freedom from her family to tell her anything which i recon might be the best idea what do u reckon

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (30 September 2006):

Toria agony auntLike I said before I would try talking to your friend who's sister this is and see their feelings, they will also know more about their parents feelings regarding this :o)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2006):

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ok i dont think its the age thing that much either but it is more the fact that its my friends sister and i dont think her parents are too fond of me being around her

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (28 September 2006):

tux agony aunt19 and 16 is not an age gap at all.. it is fairly legal in most places to begin with and many laws are stated in a way that if a within a certain age range has sex it's not illegal which 3 years is not much typically in the eyes of the law... depending on where you are at.. and if you are not having sex, there's nothing to be worried about to begin with.. but a 3 year gap is not a gap at all..

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):

Toria agony auntAge is only a number and she is of a legal age therefore that isn't a problem, I would talk to your friend whos sister she is and test the grounds as some friends are really funny about their friends dating their siblings as they fear this might get in the way of the friendship or they may be pulled into the middle if there is ever a problem between you both.

Good luck :o)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006):

Ask her parents if it is ok to take her out on a date.

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