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writes: Dear Cupid,I'm confused about this look that my crush has been giving me lately. It seems like whenever he sees me, he just looks at me with this...emotionless...expression on his face. I don't know what he means by it. Do you think he's mad at me? Is it because he knows I cry about him, like, every night and he's trying to tell me not to cry over him? It's really starting to stress me out because I don't have a clue what he means. Any help is greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2007): try talking to this guy you like. if he is giving you strange looks, ask him why.You can't know if he is mad unless you ask.If you find you are crying in your room, dont stress! if you feel that you are doing something that bothers him always approach him and ask why. No realationship is over until you figure out a way it can be fixed. Hope my answer helped you.
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
Does he even know how you feel about him?
I would say for a start you need to pull yourself together as you don't want to give off the wrong impression towards him, if he looks at you as just another girl with a crush then you won't get anywhere you need to at least come across like he doesn't bother you and although you like him you can deal with being around him and getting on with things.
You need to show him there is something in you that is worth him taking the time out to get to know and if your acting strange because of how you feel you won't be letting that side of you show.
Good luck :o)
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reader, camille +, writes (28 September 2006):
This is tricky without knowing him, you, 'the look' or the full story. Anyway, hard as it will be, you need to try and pull yourself together. If you are crying about him every night, the chance are you are giving off a desperate, needy, sad vibe to him and maybe his look is a reaction to that. You may giving off allsorts of negative signals without realising it. When he looks at you, what do you do? Try smiling and then looking away. Then he'll know you like him, but as you look away, it'll send a message of confidence, that you don't NEED to look at him. I know that's not how you probably feel inside, but you'll be projecting something positive and hopefully you'll start to feel good. Try not to cry. Build your self-esteem and smile. Try and be strong as if he sees you happy and he may see something attractive in you. At the moment he may only be seeing a girl who has a crush and is acting a bit weird around him. It's natural to feel crushes but obviously they don't guarantee the person will like you back, so know that you will probably feel this many many times during your life and sometimes it will result in a reaaly great relationship. Now, go and practice smiling in front of the mirror!
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