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*azelbanana113
writes:So I've known this guy since the very beggining of September and we really clicked then about a month ago I started to like him as more than a friend and then just a couple weeks ago he started showing signs of liking me back so one day after school I asked him if he wanted to hang out and we ended up going on a date the next day. We spent 4 hours together at the mall doing absolutely nothing but talking and walking around. I thought that the date went so well and there was so much chemistry and connection that I was sure that by the end of that next week we'd be going out but, that monday ( we went out out the previous friday) I was going to kiss him after thinking about us and things like that but then he stoped me before I got the chance and told me that he was 'confused' about us and he wasnt sure if he liked me and he cant handle relationships. I thought that he was just paraniod and didnt wanna ruin anything so I was like okay thats cool. But over the past two weeks hes been more over me. The signs he likes me are so obvious I feel a person living on the moon could tell he liked me so two days ago I brought it up again and I was like are you ready yet? and he said no.He did the same thing today, he said he didnt want to be reminded of it for some reason and hes just too scared and he cant do this.I havent wronged him in any way and he wants me, I just dont understand why hes acting this way about it.Any help? Reply to this Question
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reader, tracyamoc  +, writes (10 November 2010):
I'd say he just wants to be friends with you i am afraid. It is so hard that you feel chemistry and attraction with him but he does not feel the same way. That is the most hurtful things that a girl can experience, believe me i have also.
I suggest that take space from him as much as you can and this will help. There is plenty of fish in the sea girl!!
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