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36-40,
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writes:Okay so i am 23 year old guy. I have kissed like just 3 girls in my life and they hang out with me for like few days to few weeks and leave me. I have recently dated like a french girl who was beautiful and lovely. She broke with me in 1 week telling that she dont have time for a bf. I feel like extremely depressed. I am worried if i am going to have a long term relationship.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (10 November 2010):
 You will, it's possible you're putting too much emphasis on finding a girl. So you've had 3 girls reject, don't sweat it. We all go thru rejection at one point in our lives..It's possible you're picking the wrong kind of girls, that's why they leave after a week because they're not your type. First figure exactly what you are looking for in a woman, and I'm talking about what's on the inside..then once you know exactly what you want then go out there and search for it, even if that means looking into surrounding cultures. Don't give up hope or faith, stay positive and proactive that's when you find what you're looking for. Happy hunting!!
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reader, tracyamoc  +, writes (10 November 2010):
I bet you are a nice guy aren't you????
I was with guys before and i would leave them after 2 to 4 weeks. Why??
Because they were clingy, too cuddly and were not that fun.
You need to be distant with them a bit and add fun and adventure with them.
if you take them out with friends, ignore them a little bit but not too much.
Dont be too much of a bad boy just take it handy.
Basically, if you have a date with a girl, let her contact you first which means she is interested. If she does not contact you in three days, contact her and if she gets to a point that she is acting distant, she is not interested.
Wish you all the best, there is someone out there for everyone! Take no crap and move on
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