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writes:Hi everyone!I am young and just want some advice from someone who won't think I'm crazy lol, I started liking this boy last year and we starting going out in March, we have been breaking up on and off becausee he cheats! ( I have the password to his facebook) Last year we went to the same school this year we don't , but we still decided to try and be together. We got back together on Christmas day last year and things were going well, but the last few days.. I noticed him acting strange again so I asked him what was the problem, his response was he wants to be friends for now but I know he always comes running back and I told him no, this time if we break up its over because I'm tired of him playing with my feelings. He told me he still loves me and I told him I love him to but I am so tired, and so hurt right now and realy don't know what I should do. Please give me advice! thanks in advance!
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reader, lili1203 +, writes (22 January 2011):
lili1203 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone and you all are so riqht. I'm just qonna let it go, boy is it hard tho, but I will be ok :) Tthanks again for taking the time to answer it... I'm tired of breaking up getting back together! It's draining :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): Hey i'm the same age as you and I have gone through the same thing as you! I actually just got out of that relationship last night so I think that maybe you should just be friends because you don't want a guy that is going to treat you like that! trust me I know! To him you are someone he knows will always be there and so he thinks he can do whatever he wants with you! Don't let him think that! And i wish I knew you better and stuff or had a way to contact you so we could talk more and maybe help each other out! i hope i helped you!
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reader, cry +, writes (21 January 2011):
 uuuuggghhh your to young . you want my advice you break up with him .. do it befor he breaks up with you . i promis you wont regret . your a classy young lady that deserves better and much much more.ive been there befor girl .listen to me.do it . and best of luck .AK
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reader, smooch +, writes (21 January 2011):
 If he really loved you then he wouldn't keep cheating on you, nor would he say that he just wants to be friends. I say break it off with him and don't get back, he obviously doesn't know what he wants and is just playing you because he knows that you'll keep taking him back.
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (21 January 2011):
Short answer: don't bother with him. His attention is anywhere but on you and he's obviously too immature to be in a relationship. The thing is, relationships take a lot of effort and most people who think they want one don't fully realize how much time and devotion it takes to consistently be true to the other person. All of a sudden they find themselves in a relationship and are uncomfortable with being completely attached to one person.
He's not experienced or mature enough to deal with a real relationship which is why he's messing around. When he no longer has you he realizes that he also gave up the wonderful portions of your companionship and wants them back, but when he gets it back he finds out just how much effort he'll need to put into you alone. If he can't handle it, let him go. He has devotion issues and is better left alone.
You deserve better; find better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): he's not worth it! give him the flick and don't keep checking his facebook...that will only wreck your head :)
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