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We have been together for over a year, but we are not in love just yet. Is this unusual? Should I be worrying?

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Question - (20 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi me and my boyfriend have been together a year now and we are both 17. we are both really comfortable around eachother now and can tell eachother anything. i see him about 3 or 4 times a week.

the thing is, we are not in love with eachother yet. is that really unusual not to be inlove as we have been together for a year? should i be worrying?

dont people normally fall inlove after a couple of months? :s

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2007):

No some relationships take time to develope you'll fall in with each other in time

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (20 December 2007):

kenny agony auntIt really depends on the couple in question really, some people fall in love after a week, or a month, while on the other end of the scale some people it could be over the course of several years. No i don't think that you need to worry, you enjoy each others company, you are comfortable around each other, and you can tell each other anything. Love could manifest itslef anytime, just be patient, it will come, probably when you both least expect it.

Merry Christmas x

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